FFF Hierarchy - How to know when to be submissive or dominant!
So, you just saw your very first pony girl or pony stallion, now you are smitten, and you just want to get involved. Here
is a little information about the unique form of trust and learning that goes into pony play, and information about how it
pertains to BDSM or S&M, so we can clear up a few things right off the bat. We do not allow sex on the farm, except for
specific reasons or in private places. DO not be caught doing anything that is of bad taste. This farm is a training facility-a
college or school, if you will.
A breakdown of the Dominance Hierarchy at FFF is as follows from top to bottom:
Stable Mistress/ Owner (SMO) - This is Miss Button Wright. Every one must submit to her without exception. DO not argue or
hassle her; she pays the bills. She provides this place for you. So, if you can not respect her, you have no business being
here.
Stable Mistress (SM) - This position is selected entirely by Miss Button Wright, and she chooses them as she sees fit.
Everyone besides Miss Button Wright must submit to the Stable Mistresses. These Mistresses assist Mistress Wright in running
the farm and helping the ponies and trainers in any way that they are able. They also have assignments by Miss Button, so
they stay busy at times. All Trainers, Owners and Ponies must respect and submit to the Stable Mistresses.
Senior Trainers (ST) - These trainers have proven their ability to train in all disciplines and events at the farm. As
a result, you may enjoy their knowledge, but remember that they are esteemed and very experienced. All other trainers, owners
and ponies must respect and submit to these special trainers.
Trainers - These people have shown their knowledge of proper pony behavior and manners. They are proficient in at least
three of the challenging events taught at the farm. Trainers are able to choose the events in which they prefer to be trained.
Ask a trainer for a card that will tell you their specialty, so you can know right away which trainers to pick. I hope to
have lists of proficiencies on the website, so a pony can get to know our trainers better. There is nothing sadder than a
pony wanting to learn something and choosing a trainer who is not comfortable with the discipline. All Ponies and owners will
respect and submit to the trainers, as they have been properly trained, and they are experienced at our farm. Trainers should
seek out advice from senior trainers as they have such a vast amount of knowledge.
Trainer Trainees (TT) - These young men and women are in training to become a trainer. They must learn the proper manners
and behaviors to all the Dominants above their level. They must learn the proper ways a pony is to behave in and out of tack.
During this special trainee time, they will observe and learn what is allowed for them when dealing with superiors, visitors,
owners and, most importantly, ponies. Trainees should seek out senior trainers to learn by watching them train ponies. When
a senior feels the trainee has learned enough, they will allow the trainee to train in front of them. Once a trainee has shown
a senior trainer that he is proficient in an area, the senior trainer can at his or her OWN discretion give the trainee a
card of approval. Please do not ask for these as it is ONLY upon their decision, and asking for one is not a proper submissive
behavior.
Pony Owners - Please understand we will respect your wishes as to how we are to train and care for your pony, so you can
relax and know that they are in the best place they can be. Nevertheless, we need you to have respect all the hard work, experience
and training that goes into this farm. Most owners do not realize how hard a pony works when they are here, or how tired they
may be when they come home. IF you wish to learn to work your pony properly, please follow them as they are trained. This
will enable you to give them the same cues we have taught them to respond to. No matter how well behaved or accomplished your
pony is. IF she does not understand what you want her to do, then she cannot please you. Moreover, we work hard to teach them
how to please you, so please learn how to get the most out of your pony by hanging out with their trainers at least once a
week. At this time, I would like to say we really do thank you for your trusting us to take good care of your pony and helping
them be the best then can be to serve you.
Lastly and most importantly are our ponies. Yes, you are why we are all here, my sweet little darlings. We will do everything
we can to ensure you have learned all of the things we teach. In the future, we plan to have a list of things taught for you
on the farm, so you can keep up with your progress. Please remember that you are to be submissive to any staff on the farm.
We are here to take care of you and teach you; most of us do this only for our love of male and female ponies alike. Please
remember that we put in long hours, so remember your manners. Ask sweetly and inventively in the channel when you wish to
be trained. If you have a trainer you have worked out a friendship with, please message them when you want to train, but remember
that they are very busy. So, if they would like to train, please just let them know politely that you are ready and waiting
to be their servant. I promise you that a trainer who has worked their hours for the week will not be convinced to come to
your side if you demand condescendingly for a trainer. Also, remember even if you are out of bit, when you are in the company
of a trainer or stable mistress, you are still to watch your manners. Do not interrupt when a superior is speaking or change
the subject. THIS IS totally against submissiveness. IF you cannot be submissive to your trainers, senior trainers, and stable
mistresses, then it is hard to believe you wish to be submissive at all. Please remember the most respect you can gain is
learning to respect those who are in the dominant positions.
FFF is a gentle form of BDSM, which is based on pony play. The term "BDSM" is an abbreviation derived from the terms bondage
and discipline, domination and submission. Pony play is where a person wants to pretend to be a horse or pony. They want to
be trained and treated as a pony and experience the life of a horse / pony to its fullest. Bondage and discipline come with
the pony having to wear their hooves, tail, bridle and harness. Domination and submission comes with a hierarchy.
Each group submits to those higher on the hierarchy.